Family law professionals frequently work with individuals and families whose conflicts appear entrenched and resistant to resolution. These matters are often characterized by cycles of blame, emotional escalation, distorted narratives, and deep mistrust—between parties and, at times, toward the systems and professionals involved. Rather than viewing these dynamics solely as difficult behavior, this session explores the broader relational, psychological, and systemic factors that sustain conflict and shape decision-making under stress.

This year we are hosting two nationally recognized speakers. Our keynote speaker will be Stephanie Coontz, followed by Dr. Michael Saini who will be providing a workshop on the facets and development of trust.

Stephanie Coontz’s scholarship helps family law professionals ground their work in accurate historical and social context. By debunking myths about marriage/family life and divorce/separation. Her research shows that family structures, gender roles, and expectations have evolved in response to social and economic change. This critical perspective helps family law professionals from every role challenge outdated assumptions, interpret family law more thoughtfully, and advocate better for those in the throes of divorce/separation.

Michael Saini’s work, particularly on “trust”, equips family law professionals with practical, evidence-based approaches for navigating conflict and supporting cooperative outcomes. By framing trust as something that can be assessed, built, damaged, and repaired, his research offers concrete strategies for mediation, co-parenting planning, and high-conflict cases.

Together, these approaches help professionals move beyond adversarial dynamics toward more child-focused, trauma-informed, and sustainable resolutions.

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