Family law professionals frequently work with individuals and families whose conflicts appear entrenched and resistant to resolution. These matters are often characterized by cycles of blame, emotional escalation, distorted narratives, and deep mistrust—between parties and, at times, toward the systems and professionals involved. Rather than viewing these dynamics solely as difficult behavior, this session explores the broader relational, psychological, and systemic factors that sustain conflict and shape decision-making under stress.

Michael Saini’s work, particularly on “trust”, equips family law professionals with practical, evidence-based tools for navigating conflict and supporting cooperative outcomes. By framing trust as something that can be assessed, built, damaged, and repaired, his research offers concrete strategies for mediation, co-parenting planning, and high-conflict cases

Stephanie Coontz’s scholarship helps family law professionals ground their work in accurate historical and social context. By debunking myths about “traditional” marriage and family life, her research shows that family structures, gender roles, and expectations have always evolved in response to social and economic change. This perspective helps lawyers, judges, and mediators challenge outdated assumptions, interpret family law more thoughtfully, and advocate for policies and decisions that reflect the real diversity of modern families.

Together, these approaches help professionals move beyond adversarial dynamics toward more child-focused, trauma-informed, and sustainable resolutions.